03 November 2014
You know how some people who just like to "advertise" their relationship. Yeah... Its kinda have gotten to a point where its not just about "YOU" that you are putting out there, its about "WE".
Maybe cos I have started to limit what I put out on my social media especially when its not just my girlfriends who are able to access such information about my private life, acquaintances that you have met through school or work are able to access these information as well. Not to mention that they don't know you as a person on a deep level, they might actually judge you.
Everything is just at your finger tips in this era, so its kinda scary. Everything has just became so convenient that things said goes around very fast. Its like SARS, super contagious.
Everyone is constantly being watched by people.
What are the chances of being preyed via internet. One in a billion? You never know. Have you watched the show "Catfish" yeah... You might be that unlucky one.
Not to mention #Cyberbullying is not cool too. Well, you can practically do anything behind the screen... Scold people? say mean things about them? hacking? Endless list of possibilities.
My point is that we are immune into this society of gadgets that we have became so fearless in a sense that we are not cautious of our actions. We became careless as beings. We try to thrive in our environment just to make a living, and we aint got time for effective communication.
Just log in to your social media and you know what your friends are doing. You don't have to speak. They automatically updates their every move to let everyone knows. What's the point of having friends then? That just defeat the purpose.
I don't want to just view my friends life, I want to be a part of it too. I want people to ask "How is you and Ed?" "School?" "Work?" I want them to be curious. Show some concern.
Why friendship these days don't last. I have just decoded it for you. Enjoy.